You Won’t Have Much Privacy
In contrast to living with a stranger, your relatives know you very well and may have the tendency to be a little too interested in what’s going on in your life. Certain boundaries should be set between you and your family members. Inform them that even though you will be sharing the same living space, it is a good idea to maintain a certain distance from one another in order to maintain some personal space. When pertaining to personal belongings, make them aware that they should ask your permission if they would like to borrow something from you. Remember to give your relatives their own personal space as well as asking permission before using their personal items. Treat them the same way you would want them to treat you.
You Will Get Frustrated
While living with anyone, it is a common thing to feel slightly fed up with one another from time to time. Especially when living with relatives, your frustration may feel more intense than if you were living with a stranger. For instance, if you are living with your parents or and older relative they may continuously try to intervene in your personal life regardless of the boundaries you set up. There may also be children in the house that like to go through your belongings when you are away. Because you care and love your family, it may be hard for you to address these problems as firmly as you would if you were living with a stranger. Be patient and remember to choose your battles wisely. Address problems calming, trying not to hurt anyone’s feelings.
It’s Not Your House
Whether you are moving into someone else’s house or you have decided to rent a place together with one of your relatives, the place you are living is not your house. You are either living in someone else’s place or sharing a place. Be considerate of other people and don’t....
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